My girlfriend of 5 years and I have a child together but there hasn’t been any physical contact for the past year. Recently she came up to me and offered to sleep with me if I let her do some illegal drugs before a concert that we were going to. What should I do?
- Jack from Jonestown
Hey Jack...
Um, yeah, your chick sounds like a very romantic girl. If there hasn’t been any physical contact for five years, then it sounds she’s been holding out. Poor you. It also seems as if you are still wearing the pants in this relationship. The thing I don’t get is why on earth she would offer to have sex with you just so she can do drugs. Drug users are generally dishonest people. Now that I think about it, so are non-drug users. In my experience, people don’t ever really need drugs or alcohol to be dishonest--some it just comes natural to, but let’s just focus on her right now. She would do it behind your back. It sounds like she has been, but maybe she’s going to hit you up for money now as well, in exchange for sex. Not a keeper. Even if she is your baby’s momma, get rid of her. She sounds painfully trashy.
